Short #3 Splits
If you are a split definition (simple, large, or wide) OR a quad split .. you do NOT want to miss this episode. It will literally change your entire life and healing journey.
Listen to short #3 here on Spotify or below.
I’ve also provided an example from one of my high level trainings of how what the bridge language may sound like and how they dictate the direction of not-self energy from your undefined centers.
PS - you can download your shadow report HERE to learn more about your bridges.
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Prefer to read rather than listen? Check out the transcript of this episode below:
Welcome to another episode of Human Design Shadow Shorts, I’m your host Danna and I’m going to give you today’s tidbit in less than five minutes. That means no bullshit and no blabbing. My defined, in the not self, sometimes I have a bit of a hard time with that. In the last short we talked about undefined centers. Here’s the thing that a lot of people aren’t talking about, or at least I haven’t seen this talked about a lot other than in my circles; when you are looking for not self energy and you are a split definition (that means you have two separate islands of defined centers that do not connect) or a quad split, your biggest conditioning factors are going to be found in your bridges. The bridges are the gates that you are missingtha tyou would need to connect your defined centers. The easiest way to find your bridges is honestly using Genetic Matrix because they’ll just fcking tell you what your bridges are. The link for GM is here. The next best way is to download my $97 shadow report and I’ll show you in that report how to find your bridges, and if you contact me, I will manually give you an explanation of your bridges.
Aside from that, lets talk about bridges: your mind plays tricks on you. Your mind tells you that this energy is the most important in the world. It will undermine your strategy and authority every single time when you are in the not self. Your bridges will pretend to be the reasons why you make decisions. I need to make this decision. I need to do this thing because of…
A lot of people I have seen recently have the 20 bridge, which means they are constantly feeling like they need to do things now now now. If I can’t do it now i’m not going to do it. I need to complete this project now. I need to be awake now. I need to understand everything now. I need to do it all now now now. You can see how this puts pressure on all of our centers, but also on the mind. The mind plays tricks on you using your bridges. Guess what? It doesn’t end there if you’re a split definition. No No No- it becomes even more of a mindfck because then your undefined centers are going to follow the bridges. So, let’s say you have a 20 bridge; you need that 20 to connect that throat and your spleen or your throat and your sacral. Here’s what’s going to happen- you’re going to feel like ‘I need to do this thing now. I need to finish this now. I need to do all of the things now. But your undefined solar plexus is going to follow that. It’s going to follow that. Your undefined solar plexus says ‘I’m going to avoid the truth in order to do all the things now. To know all the things now. To finish the things now. I’m going to avoid what my body is telling me. I’m going to avoid what this other person is telling me. I’m going to avoid having that difficult conversation over there because I need to finish this now. You can see how the bridges and the centers together, it’s so nuanced. Itreally does depend on your specific chart and your activations. But if you are a split definition or a quad split this is the deepest shadow work, the most understanding you will ever have on yourself. I cannot stress enough how important it is, if you’re a split definition, to understand your bridges. Your undefined centers follow that energy, and how that is fucking with your mind and undermining your strategy and authority. I hope you found this helpful, check out the notes for some links. Byee.