Short #4: Splits & what you didn't know
In this short I reveal the TOP 6 things you (probably) didn’t know about split definition (this is true for quad splits too!)
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Prefer to read rather than listen? Check out the transcript of this episode below:
Welcome to another episode of Shadow Shorts, where I give you Human Design, pyschology and shadow work tidbits in less than 5 minutes. Here we goooo. I’m your host Danna. Today we’re going tot alk about part 2 of Split definitions; the six things you did not know. Or maybe you did know; I don’t know. Let’s find out. Obviously we’re always talking about not-self energy…because this is a shadow show.
As a split definition, it is always about me and what I did wrong. Where I am not good enough. Where I am broken. This is the not-self mind jibber-jabber that you are going to hear when you are a split definition. Where I am not good enough, where I am broken, where I am wrong. When you start to hear that, you know that is probably coming from your bridges.
Decisions made from the mind are actually made from your bridges. If you want to know why you do what you do, look at your bridges friends.
Your purpose is not to be bridged. Don’t go out there looking to be bridged. Your purpose is to develop the specialized wisdom that comes from your bridges. Remember: where we are open we are meant to be wise. When we are attached to the bridge, we create codependency, we lose our power, we lose our magnetism. Our purpose in life is not to find a partner that is going to bridge our split. No no no, we don’t want that. That creates codependency.
All splits are biologically driven to get to the other side. That is because our genes are attracted to the opposite. This is evolution. Our splits are looking for the bridge because it is sexy, it is exciting, it is fun. That does not mean it is correct. It is genetics. We want to procreate with someone that is different. That is why we always have to use strategy and authority; because it is quite a mindfck.
Our undefined centers follow the split. Their not-self is owned by the bridges. The bridges own the not-self energy of our undefined centers and they choose how to direct that energy. You can listen to more about the undefined centers in the previous episode- I go into detail there.
Bridges are our specializations. split definitions, quad splits, we are specializers. Single definition, triple splits are generalists. They’re generalists about the themes of their undefined centers. Split definition and quad splits specialize in those undefined bridges. This is where we gather wisdom when we are not overly obsessed with a narrow perspective that comes with being bridged. Anywhere where we’re undefined we get to amplify the definition and be wise about it. But listen: if you’re identifying with that energy or feeling like you need this because you are broken and going out trying to find it, then you are not allowing yourself to be wise on it. You are not allowing yourself to be wise, you are instead identifying with the narrow perspective that comes from that definition.
Alright, that’s all I got for you for today! Love you, byeeee.